Tricks to train kids to become responsible

 

 Hello, 

Today my kids are seeming so organized and responsible. This is real! And they are of 11 and 4 years in age.Imagine!

Kids sitting calmly engrossed in their own little world of toys and games.

Isn't it a bit strange and that too while at home all the time during corona at large. So, this was a hurrah for me. Yes! I've nailed it and here I go expressing a few tricks to get them here.

Here are a few things I would like to share with you regarding managing kids and their training to behave responsible . "My secret formula to train kids your way."

• As I always say "let them be". Suppose the kid needs to play with water/ paint/ small pieces of blocks etc. and mess the place. Let them. But make sure to take the promise to clean up the place afterwards with a simple warning - "you'll not be allowed the next time or mum will be sad otherwise". cool right?

• Make kids help you in little things rather shoving them away rudely. Like if you are in kitchen let them lay the table. If you are dusting give them a little cloth to do the same. If you are working on your project let them know that they will help you by doing their own homework along with you. This will give them the feeling of usefulness and importance. They'll love you even more by showing care towards you.

• Now the rooms will be clean and shouts around the home will be less. This is the right time for the kids to manage their time table. Their mind knows that mom is happy with them. They want to learn new things now. Make them sit to study the same time everyday. This way even if you are busy someday their mind will be trained to grasp new knowledge and ready to be disciplined and learn at that particular time of the day. So good grades are also on the way now. Just give it a try. If I can achieve you can too.  

Hope my experience benefits you. And if you find it good do tell me. Or if you are in some other mess with kids lets together find a solution.

Isha

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